Hey girls we asked tons of guys over an e-mail survey lots of question's about dating, guys aren't really as bad as we think, really some of the answer were really sweet!

We asked them How far would they go on a first date???
most guys said all the way, of course they have to be macho men!!! But we did get some guys saying just a kiss, that was mostly from younger guys. This sweetie from Texas, 21 says, "Kiss on the check, Im kind of old fashion."

Then we asked them if they would like a girl to ask them out???
Almost all the guys said "YES" it's the 90's girls don't be afraid to ask that guy your eyeing out he would be impressed by you confidence!!!!!

Do you believe in love at first sight??? About half of the guys said they do. The other half some said "NO" some said they believe in lust at first sight. A guy from London, 21 said "I believe you can be very attracted, but love is something that is found over time."

What kind of signs do you give a girl that you like her???
A lot of guys say they would try to make you laugh,
here's a couple guys answers;
"I stare at her, start a conversation with her, try to make her laugh." -17, PA
We thought this one was cute,
"Wink, say hey"
yeah that's going to get us!

What turns you on???
Most guys said confidence!!!! A couple guy's said Sunflower perfume, and tight clothes and platforms.
"When a girl calls me or asks for my number." -20, Ohio
"Girls turn me on, I love them to death." - 15, Arkansas
how sweet!!!
The number one answer was SMILE!!! So easy just flash that smile and the guys will go wild!!!!

We asked them what kinds of clothes they like???
You can guess what most said "Tight of course" -16, texas
or put it in his words
"I love baggy clothes, I love clothes that fit, but I REALLY love tight clothes!!"
-17, PA

We also asked them what do you want in a girl???
Guys had thousands of worlds to describe their dream girl . . . . . Sense of humor, smell good, caring, good soul, a positive attitude, trust, beauty internal & external, committed, fun loving, outgoing, sweet, hardworking, maturity, athletic, sexy, respect, love, patient, intelligent, passionate, positive, fun, strong soul, funny, and good looks always help!
One guy in PA, 18 says, "In one word sexy"
Look guys were not perfect!!!!!!

This is the one question they answered the sweatest ..... We asked them what was the perfect gift a girl could give you???
Not one guy said something that was material,
"The words I LOVE YOU" - 18, New York
"A planned evening away from everyone like a picnic at sun set at a special quiet place." -21, Maine
"What else but her heart" say 17, PA
or this cute answer ......
"A peanut butter and jelly sandwich"

Here's some advice from some guy's we talked to . . . . . .

"Be honest and be yourself.....don't try to pretend to be someone your not it just hurts both parties in the end there's someone for everyone." -21, Texas

"Don't be afraid to speck your piece, guys love it when a woman is confident, not cocky, but be sure of her self and secure in her sexuality." -18, PA

"Looks don't count .... character wise is most important" -unknown

"Be yourself, that way you know the guy really likes who you are" -unknown

"Smile and live each moment like its your last day! life was meant to be lived"

"Whether he'll admit it or not, he's just as nervous as you are about asking you out, BUT BE HONEST! If you don't like him, tell him. Also don't be afraid to ask him out if you think he's moving to slow." - 20, Ohio

              Here's on poem from Jewel's book
            A Night Without Armor
     I look at Young Girl's know

        I look at young girls now
              in their tight crushed velour
              skin tight sky blue
              hip huggers with baby doll
              tank tops
              and I think
                I've been there.
                God have I been there.

              Sixteen years old and
              Wrestling with an overwhelming
              Newfound sexuality.
              Parading it in all it's
              raw and awkward charm.

              I had a pair of vintage
              burgundy velvet short
              shorts that laced up
              the sides
              from the 1920s
              and I wore them
              with a tight leotard
              and a plastic faux pearl
              choker

              Showing off all my lanky
              leggy blossoming
              Youth on the verge
              of womanhood for all the
              free world to see
              and with no idea how to keep
              a secret, especially my own.

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